Switching Lawyers During Divorce: What You Need to Know

Divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. Emotions are raw, tensions run high, and the uncertainty about the future can feel overwhelming. You may have hired a lawyer, hoping they’d lighten the load, but something doesn’t feel right.

Perhaps you’re not getting updates or your concerns are being brushed aside. If this resonates with you, you’re not alone—and it might be time to consider switching lawyers.

Divorce is already hard enough, and your lawyer should be someone you trust to guide you through it. 

At Reade Law Firm, P.C., we understand how important that relationship is. A strong connection with your attorney can make the difference between feeling supported and feeling lost. That’s why we’re here to help you identify the signs it might be time for a change and how to handle the process effectively.

Signs it Might be Time for a Change

Not every lawyer is the right fit for every client, and that’s okay. But, how do you know if it’s time to switch? Here are some signs to watch for:

Lack of Communication

  • Radio Silence: Your lawyer doesn’t return your calls or emails in a timely manner.
  • Unclear Explanations: You’re left confused about where your case stands or what’s coming next.
  • Dismissive Attitude: You feel like your concerns are being ignored or brushed aside.

Inadequate Representation

  • Unpreparedness: Your lawyer seems unready in court or during negotiations.
  • Missed Deadlines: Key dates or filings are overlooked, which could hurt your case.
  • Limited Knowledge: They lack experience in handling issues like complex property division or custody disputes.

Personality Clashes

  • Mismatched Communication Style: You’re uncomfortable with how they talk to you or handle your case.
  • Trust Issues: You don’t feel confident in their advice or decisions.
  • Disrespectful Behavior: If your lawyer’s tone or actions make you feel uncomfortable, that’s a red flag.

Ethical Concerns

  • Billing Problems: You notice unexplained charges or feel like you’re being overbilled.
  • Conflict of Interest: You question whether your lawyer is prioritizing your best interests.
  • Transparency Issues: You’re kept in the dark about strategy or settlement options.

Making the Switch

If any of these signs sound familiar, it’s important to know that you can switch lawyers. Here’s how to handle it step by step:

1. Review Your Fee Agreement.

Before anything else, take a look at the agreement you signed with your current lawyer. This will outline:

  • How to terminate the contract.
  • Any outstanding fees you may need to pay.
  • Whether there are penalties for early termination.

2. Gather Your Case File.

Ask for copies of all the documents related to your case—motions, pleadings, correspondence, and discovery materials. Having an organized file will make the transition easier for your new lawyer.

3. Find a New Lawyer.

This step is critical. You’ll want someone who aligns better with your needs.

  • Ask for Recommendations: Trusted friends, family members, or other professionals can often suggest someone.
  • Do Your Research: Check reviews and testimonials online. Look for lawyers with experience in cases like yours.
  • Schedule Consultations: Meet with potential attorneys to discuss your case and see if they’re a good fit.

4. Inform Your Current Lawyer.

Write a polite but firm letter to your current lawyer, letting them know you’re ending the representation. If you’d prefer, your new attorney can handle this step for you.

5. Smooth the Transition.

Work with your new lawyer to get them up to speed. Share all the documents you’ve collected and provide any additional details they need.

Potential Challenges

Switching lawyers isn’t always seamless, but being prepared can help:

  • Timing Issues: If you’re close to trial or a critical stage, switching may require court approval.
  • Costs: You’ll need to settle any remaining fees with your current lawyer and pay a retainer for the new one.
  • Adjustment Period: Your new lawyer will need time to get familiar with your case.

Choosing the Right Lawyer from the Start

To avoid needing a change, it’s important to choose carefully at the beginning. Here’s how:

Do Your Homework

  • Ask for Referrals: Friends, family, or trusted professionals can be great resources.
  • Read Reviews: Check online directories and testimonials to find lawyers with experience in cases like yours.

Prepare for Consultations

Go into consultations with questions, such as:

  • “How much experience do you have with cases like mine?”
  • “What’s your communication style?”
  • “How often will I hear from you?”
  • “What are your fees and billing practices?”

Trust Your Instincts

Above all, choose someone who makes you feel heard, respected, and confident.

Your Family Law Partner: Reade Law Firm

At Reade Law Firm, P.C., we know divorce is one of life’s hardest challenges. That’s why we prioritize clear communication, personalized strategies, and compassionate support. Whether you’re facing a custody dispute, property division, or another family law issue, we’re here to help.

If you’re considering switching lawyers or want to start your case with confidence, contact us today at (978) 767-8383. Let us listen to your story, answer your questions, and guide you through this time with care.