How to Prepare for Divorce Without Added Stress

Divorce can feel like everything is shifting at once. You’re not just filling out forms—you’re planning a new chapter. At Reade Law Firm, PC, we walk with you through this process, helping you stay focused and feel less overwhelmed by what’s ahead.

We understand what’s involved in divorce under Massachusetts law and are committed to giving you the tools that will give you more peace of mind and direction.

Know Your Options in Massachusetts

To file, you or your spouse must have lived in Massachusetts for at least a year—or the reason for divorce must have happened while you both lived here. You’ll either file together (No-Fault 1A) if you agree on everything, or one of you files alone (No-Fault 1B) if you’re still working through it. In rare cases, divorce can be filed based on serious misconduct.

Get Your Documents in Order

You’ll want to pull together:

  • Bank statements, tax returns, and retirement information
  • Loan and credit card records
  • Prenups/postnups, marriage certificates, and IDs
  • A list of valuables—photos or video can help

Our experience shows that when your financial records are in one place early on, things tend to move more smoothly. It helps limit confusion, keeps the process more focused, and reduces the chance of arguments over money or property.

If you’re able to sort out big decisions with your spouse—like custody, support, or dividing property—it often makes everything more manageable. Mediation can help with that. It’s a way to work through those details with a neutral person so things don’t get stuck. While we are dedicated advocates, Reade Law Firm, PC also recognizes the value of cooperative approaches and often guides clients toward mediation when it fits, aiming to keep the process steady and less overwhelming.

For Parents and Moving Forward

If you have children and can’t agree on custody, Massachusetts will likely require you to attend a co-parenting class. You’ll also need a Parenting Plan that clearly outlines parenting time and responsibilities.

This isn’t just a legal process—it’s personal. Try to limit what you post online, especially about the divorce. Reach out to people who can support you. And start thinking about what your life might look like once the case is finished—emotionally and financially.

Divorce law in Massachusetts can feel hard to manage alone. Reade Law Firm, PC helps you stay focused, informed, and better prepared for whatever comes next.

Ready to Talk?

You don’t have to sort through this on your own. Let’s figure out the next step—together. Call us at (978) 767-8383 to schedule a confidential consultation.

Take the first step toward a less stressful divorce in Massachusetts with Reade Law Firm, PC.